10 Ways to Encourage Your Pastor This Week

Pastors pour themselves out week after week—preparing sermons, counseling struggling members, leading through challenges, and carrying the weight of spiritual leadership. And while many people appreciate their pastor, encouragement is often assumed rather than expressed.

If you’ve ever been encouraged by your pastor’s leadership, teaching, or care, don’t keep it to yourself! A little encouragement goes a long way. Here are 10 simple, meaningful ways you can encourage your pastor this week.

1. Pray for Them (and Tell Them You Did) 

One of the greatest gifts you can give your pastor is consistent prayer. Don’t just pray for them—let them know you prayed for them and be specific:

• “I prayed today that God would give you wisdom and strength as you lead.”

• “I asked God to give you rest and refreshment this week.”
  Your pastor doesn’t just need general prayers; they need intentional ones.

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2. Write a Handwritten Note of Encouragement

A handwritten note carries weight in a world of texts and emails. Take a few minutes to write a short, heartfelt message expressing your gratitude. Be specific:

• “Your sermon on [topic] really impacted me.”

• “Thank you for the way you shepherd our church with wisdom.”

• “I see the way you care for people, and it inspires me.”
  Your words could be a reminder they need to keep going.

3. Encourage Their Spouse and Family

A pastor’s family often sacrifices a lot for the sake of ministry. Encourage their spouse with a kind word or a simple “We appreciate you.” If they have kids, find a way to bless them—maybe a small gift or a note letting them know they are loved not because of who their parent is, but because of who they are.

4. Show Up and Engage on Sundays

Pastors spend hours preparing sermons, and nothing encourages them more than knowing their church is engaged. Take notes, respond, and apply what they teach. Even a simple head nod or an “Amen” lets them know you’re with them.

5. Express Gratitude Instead of Criticism

Most pastors hear far more complaints than encouragement. Instead of saying, “The music was too loud” or “I wish the sermon was shorter,” find something positive to share. Your words can either build up or tear down—choose to build up.

6. Give Them a Small, Thoughtful Gift

You don’t have to spend a lot—just something that shows you thought of them. A gift card to their favorite coffee shop, a book you think they’d enjoy, or even their favorite snack can be a small but meaningful way to bless them.

7. Offer Practical Help

Your pastor carries a heavy load. If you see an area where you can serve, step up! Offer to:

• Take on a responsibility they typically handle.

• Help with church setup or administrative tasks.

• Assist with errands or meals if they’re in a busy season.
  Sometimes the best encouragement is lightening the load.

8. Speak Highly of Them to Others

If you appreciate your pastor, let others know! Too often, church conversations revolve around what people wish was different. Instead, spread encouragement. If someone starts complaining, redirect the conversation to something good God is doing through your pastor.

9. Give Them Permission to Rest

Many pastors struggle to take breaks because they feel like they always have to be available. Encourage them to take time off without guilt. If they take a Sunday away, don’t complain—celebrate that they’re resting.

10. Simply Say “Thank You”

Don’t underestimate the power of a simple, sincere thank you. Face-to-face, over text, or in a quick email—just let them know you appreciate them. Gratitude fuels endurance.

Encourage Your Pastor This Week

Encouragement doesn’t have to be elaborate. Pick one or two things from this list and do them this week. You never know how much your pastor might need it.

And if you’ve ever been blessed by your pastor’s leadership, I challenge you—don’t just think it. Say it. It could make all the difference.