What Your Second Chair Leader Wants You to Know
Second chair leaders, such as student pastors and ministry directors, play vital roles in the church's mission, bringing their unique callings, leadership, and strengths to the table. They desire trust, recognition, and mutual loyalty from senior pastors to thrive in their roles. By empowering and valuing their contributions, churches can grow and succeed in ways that surpass expectations.
Making Marriage Work
While the wedding day may be picture-perfect, a lasting marriage takes continuous, intentional effort. By investing in quality time, openly communicating, and supporting each other emotionally, couples can build a strong foundation and embrace the beautiful, ongoing journey of marriage as a true gift from God.
Dealing with Grief During the Holidays
The holiday season can be a particularly challenging time when navigating the loss of a loved one. As Brian Hatcher shares, grief is a natural and profound part of the healing process, and it’s okay to let ourselves mourn deeply, just as Jesus did when He wept for His friend Lazarus. During this season, it’s essential to let the tears flow, share memories, and lean on loved ones rather than isolating ourselves. Embracing a “new normal” can help bring healing. By honoring past memories and creating new ones, we can find ways to experience both grief and the quiet joy of being with family and friends amidst the pain.
Multiplying Church Ministry in Your Church
The church is most alive when every member uses their unique gifts to contribute to its mission, as Paul emphasized to the church in Ephesus. Recognizing our individual limits, entrusting ministry to faithful people, giving them space to lead, and following up for growth all contribute to a thriving church body. When ministry is shared, the church’s impact is multiplied, beautifully reflecting God’s design for His people to carry out His mission together.
Dealing with Disappointment
When disappointment strikes, it’s easy to let doubt and discouragement cloud our faith. However, by shifting our perspective and trusting God’s plan, we can transform these moments into opportunities for growth, knowing that He uses even the hard times to shape and guide us.
Pastors: Learn to Lament
Grieving is essential to spiritual health, yet often overlooked, especially for pastors. Unresolved grief can lead to emotional, physical, and spiritual harm, impacting every aspect of life. By expressing grief healthily—through trusted relationships, recognizing a new normal, and seeking professional help when needed—pastors can navigate their sorrow and grow deeper in their spiritual journey.
Responding to Halloween as a Believer
As fall approaches and Halloween nears, many churches and believers wrestle with how to respond. Whether rejecting, countering, accepting, or engaging with the holiday, there are biblical perspectives to support each approach. Halloween offers a unique opportunity for outreach, with neighbors coming directly to your doorstep—a chance to connect and potentially create pathways back to the church.
What's Your Spiritual Narrative
Spiritual growth often starts with behavior, but God calls us to something deeper—wholeness in Christ. Instead of living in fear, trying to earn God's approval, we are meant to trust His redemptive work, recognizing that we are complete in Him and growing spiritually through His transformation of our hearts.
Keeping Your Family a Priority
Balancing pastoral duties and family life can be challenging, as both demand time and attention. To keep your family a priority, establish boundaries like designating an untouchable family night, continuing to date your spouse, and being fully present during family moments. Engage with your children when they want to talk, even at unexpected times, and communicate clearly with both your family and church leadership. Thoughtful planning and intentional choices can help you thrive in both your pastoral role and family life.
Humility in Leadership
Humility is a critical and often overlooked quality in leadership, both in secular and faith-based contexts. True leaders know their limitations, are willing to admit when they are wrong, and put others’ interests above their own. Developing humility is essential for leading effectively and fostering growth in both personal and organizational success.
The Spiritual Life of a Pastor
The role of a pastor often entails balancing the demands of message preparation with the need for personal spiritual growth. To prevent your spiritual life from stagnating, it is essential to cultivate your own practices and avoid comparing your journey to that of others; focus instead on methods that resonate with you and foster a genuine relationship with Christ.
The Least of These
John's inquiry, rooted in doubt despite his connection to Jesus, reveals the complexities of faith even among family. Jesus' response, filled with imagery and examples, encourages deeper contemplation rather than a simple affirmation, reflecting His teaching approach that guides listeners to uncover truth independently.
Dealing with Depression as a Believer
My story is increasingly common in the world today, yet often remains unspoken. Statistics indicate that someone you know closely may be grappling with depression, and the pressure to maintain a facade of being "okay" can lead to isolation for those who struggle.
Depression and anxiety are not a reflection of one's faith; they are genuine experiences rooted in the brokenness of
The Value of Rest
The biblical concept of Sabbath, introduced in Genesis, highlights the importance of rest as part of God’s design for humanity. Just as God rested after creation, we too are called to practice intentional rest, trusting in Him rather than striving on our own, as a vital part of spiritual and physical well-being.
It’s Okay to Not Be Okay: Brian Hatcher’s Story
The feelings of depression took more control and it wasn’t that people didn’t care, but I grew to believe that I wasn’t worthy of any of it. I believed their feelings weren’t real.
The Treasure of Your Life
Our true treasures in life are revealed through how we spend our time, attention, and presence. What we value most shapes our hearts and influences the world around us.