"Where I tried to put a period in my life, God intended a semicolon."
Excerpt From It’s Okay to Not Be Okay Brian Hatcher
Brian Hatcher, Senior Columnist
Brian grew up outside of Fort Worth, TX. At the age of 15 his life was dramatically changed by Jesus after being invited to church by the person he called after attempting to take his own life. A year after beginning to follow Jesus he was called into ministry. He went to Oklahoma Baptist University (OBU) where he completed a Bachelor of Arts in Ministry with a special emphasis on Biblical Languages along with a minor in Business Administration. He went on to complete a Master of Arts in Theology at Southwestern Theological Seminary with a thesis on Karl Barth’s Trinitarian theology. Brian has served on church staffs in the areas of discipleship, administration, men’s ministry, and education for over 20 years in Texas, Georgia, Missouri, and Tennessee.
Brian met his wife Jaclyn at OBU and they have been married for more than 25 years. Together they are parents to three boys, two dogs, and a host of birds in the backyard that depend on them for food. Brian is passionate about helping people get to know the Jesus he has gotten to know over these years. He is an avid woodworker, is almost undefeated at Wii golf on the Nintendo Switch, and loves to see his family experience life.
Second chair leaders, such as student pastors and ministry directors, play vital roles in the church's mission, bringing their unique callings, leadership, and strengths to the table. They desire trust, recognition, and mutual loyalty from senior pastors to thrive in their roles. By empowering and valuing their contributions, churches can grow and succeed in ways that surpass expectations.
The First Amendment and Title VII of the Civil Rights Act protect your right to express faith-based greetings like "Merry Christmas" and accommodate religious practices at work, ensuring the joy of the season can be shared confidently and respectfully.
While the wedding day may be picture-perfect, a lasting marriage takes continuous, intentional effort. By investing in quality time, openly communicating, and supporting each other emotionally, couples can build a strong foundation and embrace the beautiful, ongoing journey of marriage as a true gift from God.
The holiday season can be a particularly challenging time when navigating the loss of a loved one. As Brian Hatcher shares, grief is a natural and profound part of the healing process, and it’s okay to let ourselves mourn deeply, just as Jesus did when He wept for His friend Lazarus. During this season, it’s essential to let the tears flow, share memories, and lean on loved ones rather than isolating ourselves. Embracing a “new normal” can help bring healing. By honoring past memories and creating new ones, we can find ways to experience both grief and the quiet joy of being with family and friends amidst the pain.
The church is most alive when every member uses their unique gifts to contribute to its mission, as Paul emphasized to the church in Ephesus. Recognizing our individual limits, entrusting ministry to faithful people, giving them space to lead, and following up for growth all contribute to a thriving church body. When ministry is shared, the church’s impact is multiplied, beautifully reflecting God’s design for His people to carry out His mission together.
When disappointment strikes, it’s easy to let doubt and discouragement cloud our faith. However, by shifting our perspective and trusting God’s plan, we can transform these moments into opportunities for growth, knowing that He uses even the hard times to shape and guide us.
Grieving is essential to spiritual health, yet often overlooked, especially for pastors. Unresolved grief can lead to emotional, physical, and spiritual harm, impacting every aspect of life. By expressing grief healthily—through trusted relationships, recognizing a new normal, and seeking professional help when needed—pastors can navigate their sorrow and grow deeper in their spiritual journey.
As fall approaches and Halloween nears, many churches and believers wrestle with how to respond. Whether rejecting, countering, accepting, or engaging with the holiday, there are biblical perspectives to support each approach. Halloween offers a unique opportunity for outreach, with neighbors coming directly to your doorstep—a chance to connect and potentially create pathways back to the church.
Spiritual growth often starts with behavior, but God calls us to something deeper—wholeness in Christ. Instead of living in fear, trying to earn God's approval, we are meant to trust His redemptive work, recognizing that we are complete in Him and growing spiritually through His transformation of our hearts.
Balancing pastoral duties and family life can be challenging, as both demand time and attention. To keep your family a priority, establish boundaries like designating an untouchable family night, continuing to date your spouse, and being fully present during family moments. Engage with your children when they want to talk, even at unexpected times, and communicate clearly with both your family and church leadership. Thoughtful planning and intentional choices can help you thrive in both your pastoral role and family life.
Humility is a critical and often overlooked quality in leadership, both in secular and faith-based contexts. True leaders know their limitations, are willing to admit when they are wrong, and put others’ interests above their own. Developing humility is essential for leading effectively and fostering growth in both personal and organizational success.
The role of a pastor often entails balancing the demands of message preparation with the need for personal spiritual growth. To prevent your spiritual life from stagnating, it is essential to cultivate your own practices and avoid comparing your journey to that of others; focus instead on methods that resonate with you and foster a genuine relationship with Christ.
John's inquiry, rooted in doubt despite his connection to Jesus, reveals the complexities of faith even among family. Jesus' response, filled with imagery and examples, encourages deeper contemplation rather than a simple affirmation, reflecting His teaching approach that guides listeners to uncover truth independently.
My story is increasingly common in the world today, yet often remains unspoken. Statistics indicate that someone you know closely may be grappling with depression, and the pressure to maintain a facade of being "okay" can lead to isolation for those who struggle.
Depression and anxiety are not a reflection of one's faith; they are genuine experiences rooted in the brokenness of
The biblical concept of Sabbath, introduced in Genesis, highlights the importance of rest as part of God’s design for humanity. Just as God rested after creation, we too are called to practice intentional rest, trusting in Him rather than striving on our own, as a vital part of spiritual and physical well-being.
The feelings of depression took more control and it wasn’t that people didn’t care, but I grew to believe that I wasn’t worthy of any of it. I believed their feelings weren’t real.
Churches must understand legal protections like RLUIPA to continue their charitable work without interference. This law safeguards religious institutions from discriminatory land-use regulations, ensuring they can serve communities freely, while also protecting the rights of the institutionalized.
Our true treasures in life are revealed through how we spend our time, attention, and presence. What we value most shapes our hearts and influences the world around us.
Tensions between Israel and Hezbollah have escalated with recent cross-border attacks, adding to the challenges Israel faces. While the focus remains on Israel's conflict with Hamas, Hezbollah's actions highlight the broader threat in the region. Despite the ongoing conflict, we are reminded to persist in faith and prayer, trusting in God's ultimate promise of peace (Rev. 21:4).
Students in public schools have the right to pray, express religious beliefs, and wear religious symbols, while schools must ensure equal access and provide accommodations for religious practices. Teachers remain neutral during school hours but can express personal beliefs outside of work.